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Chapter One:  Cognitive changes

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Developing early or late

  Each person has a different rate of development and must be treated as an individual.  There are advantages and disadvantages to each. 

- Girls whose physical maturity starts early are often treated by adults and peers as if they are older.  This can make it difficult to meet the expectations of others, but as a result, early-maturing girls are also often able to develop more social sophistication, cognitive maturity, and coping skills.

- Girls who appear physically mature early on in adolescence are likely to begin dating earlier than their peers, but are also likely to feel greater anxiety about it.

- Late-maturing girls experience less social pressure while they are growing up.  However, they often inflict anxiety and doubt upon themselves. 

- Late-maturing girls have a relatively safe adolescence, but this may lead to more difficulty in developing the coping skills that are seen in early maturers.



- Boys who become physically mature earlier have a competitive edge in sports when playing against other boys of the same age.  Since many boys place great importance on success in athletics, this can be viewed as a significant accomplishment.

- Early-maturing boys can find it difficult to interact with their peers, but because of their quickly-increasing skills and abilities they can often be viewed as leaders by their peers, which can lead to positive personality traits such as poise and self-confidence.

- Early-maturing boys also find it easier to attract girls of their own age compared to boys who mature on time or late.

- Late-maturing boys may have a wider range of cognitive abilities and coping skills, allowing them to tackle in-depth problems with greater facility.

- Late-maturing boys can be at a disadvantage in boy-girl relationships as other boys of the same age appear more developed.  They are also less frequently chosen as leaders.


 
 
Daily life as you go through social changes

It is worthwhile to keep an open mind and listen to the opinions both of your parents and of your friends.  It can be difficult to separate this from your anxiety about your parents and your increasing independence, but the process of establishing your identity, your values and your beliefs will help make you feel confident enough to accept a variety of opinions without feeling that your autonomy is threatened.

 
 



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